英语翻译Any fool can criticize,condemn,and complain but it takes

英语翻译
Any fool can criticize,condemn,and complain but it takes character and self control to be understanding and forgiving.” —Dale Carnegie
If we really want to be happy,why do we act like such babies?
We can claim to be proactive in our life by settings goals and going after what we want.But if we’re always whining and complaining all the time,are we really living effectively?
If you don’t believe me,count how many times you complain about something or other in one day.Whether it be being stuck in traffic,being bothered by the weather,not enough mustard on your sandwich,or whatever it is,there are endless instances where you can find a reason to complain.
But it’s not just outside circumstances that we complain about.We complain about about ourselves too.We complain that we don’t have enough time,we don’t have enough money (this one is huge because it’s often “true”),that we’re not smart enough,cool enough,or just enough.
I know I’ve experienced plenty of unpleasantness due to complaining about things I can’t control.I never really thought about it much until I found this website about “living in a complain free world.”
Imagine how much happier you would be if you simply stopped complaining?Much of what you complain about is outside of your control anyway.What’s the point of brooding about something you have no power to change?Not very intelligent,if you ask me.
Simply becoming conscious of how much you complain is the first step to stopping.When you recognize that you’re complaining,stop and take notice of it.Ask yourself if you would rather complain,or be happy.
Are you ready to live a complaint-free,happier life?

任何傻瓜都能批评,谴责,并抱怨,但是理解和宽恕需要性格和自我控制.”-Dale卡内基
如果我们真的想要快乐,为什么我们的行为像这样的婴儿呢?
我们可以积极的通过设定目标在生活中寻求想要的东西.如果我们总是抱怨,抱怨个不停,就不是真正的生活.
如果你不相信我的话,算算你一天对某件事抱怨了多少次或一天抱怨了多少事.不管是被困在车中,受气候影响,三明治少点芥末,还是其它,有无数的情况你可以找个理由抱怨.
但不仅仅是抱怨外部环境,我们对自己也抱怨.我们抱怨我们没有足够的时间,没有足够的钱(这一项很多人,因为确实如此),我们不够聪明,不够酷,或者仅仅不够.
我知道我由于抱怨我无法控制的事,经历了许多的苦难.我从来没想过多少,直到我发现这个网站的关于“活在一个不抱怨的世界”..
想象停止抱怨你会多么幸福,很多你抱怨的都是你控制不了的.你没有力量去改变的而去沉思有何益处呢?如果你问我,我将回答不是很聪明.
首先知道自己有多少抱怨,是停止的第一步.当你意识到你在抱怨,停下来想一想.问问你自己是宁愿抱怨,还是享乐快乐.
你准备好去过远离抱怨、自由幸福的生活了吗?