英语阅读理解中两个选项.

英语阅读理解中两个选项.
The job of raising children is a tough one.Children don't come with an instruction manual.And each child is different.So parents sometimes pull their hair out in frustration,not knowing what to do.But in raising children-as in all of life-what we do is influenced by our culture.Naturally then,American parents teach their children basic American values.
To Americans,the goal of parents is to help children stand on their own two feet.From infancy,each child may get his or her own room.As children grow,they gain more freedom to make their own choices.Teenagers choose their own forms of entertainment,as well as the friends to share them with.When they reach young adulthood,they choose their own careers and marriage partners.Of course,many young adults still seek their parents' advice and approval for the choices they make.But once they "leave the nest" at around 18 to 21 years old,they want to be on their own,not "tied to their mother's apron strings."
The relationship between parents and children in America is very informal.American parents try to treat their children as individuals-not as extensions of themselves.They allow them to fulfill their own dreams.Americans praise and encourage their children to give them the confidence to succeed.When children become adults,their relationship with their parents becomes more like a friendship among equals.But 1.---------to popular belief,most adult Americans don't make their parents pay for room and board when they come to 2.-------.Even as adults,they respect and honor their parents.
1.A.known B.similar C.contray D.due
我想选D,因为我觉得下面文章中most dult Americans都觉得不应向父母索要住宿费用,可见这种观念是popular belief,因而不应选C（与popular belief 相反）
2.A.travel B.visit C.see D.live
我选D,答案选B既然下文中父母pay for room,可见是来同他们一起生活（live）

1：contrary 和…相反, 违反
你的选项里面单词拼写错误“1.A.known B.similar C.contray D.due”
but 转折,说明与前面的 popular belief流行观点相反
2：答案这里句话中“When children become adults, their relationship with their parents becomes more like a friendship among equals.”孩子成年后,两者关系变成了平等的朋友关系
既然是朋友,能“live”住在一起吗?当时是访问/探亲（visit）了